Lovelife status?

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-=BYE=-RiptoR Wrote:If you aren\'t capable of expressing your feelings, of letting things out once in a while, you are prone to make weird decisions.

And for as long as you think her dumping you was a \"wierd decision\" and theres a chance she might reverse it, your not going to have any closure. I don\'t mean to sound harsh, but if she dumped you, wheres the love?

I agree with SC, its your god given right to feel sorry for youself for a while, but sooner or later your going to have to move on. Whether thats in 4 months or 4 days, is entirely up to you. The only difference is how much time you spend down in the dumps, not being positive about anything. And the longer you let it sit on you, the deeper it can get.

Your still talking about her in the present tense, not that I wan\'t to get all freudian on you, but that tells me you haven\'t gotten over being dumped at all yet. The day you do, you will feel like a massive weight has been lifted from your shoulders.

If your anything like me, your probobly still kidding yourself now, that it will all work out again, and you will get back together and all will be well. There is a chance that i\'m wrong, and it could happen, but thats something only you know. Ask yourself very carefully if you think its likely, or if you should just focus on the future. Knowing that if you do decide to wait for her to come round, you could be wasting precious months of your life in depression, where otherwise you could have moved on and found somebody who was better for you.

[looks around, swears, and takes a seat...]