Goob can\'t take it.
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08-22-2005, 11:41 AM
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RE: Goob can\'t take it.
Everyone goes through their childhood hating what their parents are doing to them. It\'s just what happens. But 10 years from now, you\'ll look back and think that your parents weren\'t actually that bad.
Also, don\'t forget that your parents (and her parents) got to where they are because they lived life. They\'ve been in the exact same situation you are in now. They\'ve had relationships when they were pretty young too. How you act is based off of your past experiences. Your parents see you doing things they\'ve done and tell you how they expect it to end. That\'s not unreasonable of them. It\'s also not unreasonable of them to still see you as children. They\'ve been there to watch you grow. They don\'t want to let go of their children. They especially don\'t want to see them grow up and not need them. This is probably what your girlfriend\'s mom is freaking about. Hell, I\'m a few months off of drinking and my mother still gets really worried about me. She damn near shat herself when I told her I caught hypothermia at a regatta this past spring. Quote:Sometimes I just wish my girlfriend and I could be older, so we could move in together and be happy without other people constantly interfering.. I\'m sick and tired of people who are \"happy\" for you but at the same time seem to want you to fail miserably.. I just can\'t take being 15 anymore, I know you guys have told me to enjoy my youth while it lasts but I would rather be grown up and pay bills, pay rent, have a job, be doing something with my life, and be spending my life with the person I love. So just do it. There\'s really nothing out there to stop you. Get an apartment together, both of you get a job and live together in that apartment for the rest of your life. But realize that it is your parents who are setting up a comfortable life for you. It is your parents who are getting you into college. It is your parents who make sure your life doesn\'t suck. So the only thing I can tell you to do is to either move in with each other and start a life, or stop bitching. |
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