Which do you believe

[Mengioto]

you have this sayng in dutch:

er zijn meerdere wegen die naar Rome leiden

or something, it means

there are several paths which all lead to Rome

take Rome as the end of your life. I see it that what we become, has already been defined by some greater power or whatever. That even makes me say something: what the heck, I won\'t do this, cause my future is already set. but on the other hand, I sometimes say, ok, if you make this step, its like climbing the stairs to a slide, it makes the next steps easier, like if you were just sliding down...

but as Neo said: The problem is... choice. It\'s true; I often think: if i do A, this might happen, if I do B, this might happen. So a while back I decided to get a social life, and said \"yes\" to the question if I wanted to come along to Gouda. It made me get closer to them. If i\'d said no, i would\'ve missed out on several things and would have no idea what they were talking about if they would take about it.... So I\'ve taken my first step to a social life then, and now I\'m sliding down gently.